Christina Aguilera is a hot blonde Cuckoldress who cuckolded her husband in humiliating public fashion. She married top record company executive Jordan Bratman and they set up house in Ozzy Osbourne’s former home in L.A. But they didn’t live happily ever after. The perception was that Christina always held the position of power in the marriage as she was much wealthier than Bratman. Was her husband just a cuckold accessory? A “cover” husband to hide her real sexual pursuits? Christina had made a past statement to the media that she preferred men with “flava”. And flava in urban speak means black men with large cocks. So it was well-known that Xtina lusted for interracial sex action. But it wasn’t interracial sex during her marriage that Xtina wanted to pursue.
So if it wasn’t interracial sex, what did Christina lust for? Her husband supposedly confessed that Christina was a voracious bisexual chica who cuckolded him by doing girls all the time! Poor Jordan. How many men would consider their hot wives enjoying lesbian sex trysts to be cuckolding? Most men would be sexually turned on to know their hot wives were doing other hot women. But Christina apparently wasn’t letting him watch the hot girl on girl action so he felt cuckolded. And perhaps Xtina was expending all her sexual energy on the pussy and not on the cock. Her husband’s cock. So Jordan might have spent a lot of his marriage with cock in hand, sexually frustrated.
So when Christina Aguilera’s cuckold marriage deteriorated, she cuckolded her husband even further. She took up with her personal assistant, Matt Rutler, a cute but wimpy looking guy in a mediocre, unknown local L.A. rock band. Some doubted that Xtina would make a true play for her personal assistant, unless he was just a pawn in her power play to cuckold her husband. And as a total Cuckoldress insult, while she and her husband were legally separated, her hubby was still living at the house, and Xtina moved her playtoy in with them. So she cuckolded her top record exec husband with a lowly band boy P/A! Public humiliation for her cuckold husband as this was splashed all over the media!
How could her cuckold hubby withstand the humiliation? Cuckold hubby pulled the plug on the cuckold relationship and left. And against all odds, Cuckoldress Christina is still with her boytoy. But other rumors began to swirl: Did Christina orchestrate the whole scenario? Rutler is on her payroll, is he acting as the new “cover” while she pursues what she really craves – pussy? Or since her career is flagging, did she sacrifice her marriage for the sake of celebrity publicity to revive interest in her as a pop artist?
Cuckoldress: Christina Aguilera
Cuckold: Jordan Bratman, Christina’s ex-husband
Cuckolder: Matt Rutler, Christina’s Personal Assistant
I’ve been asked by quite a few Cuckoldress readers about some of the popular cuckold slang including Cuckhold, Cockhold, Cockold, Cuckolderess and Cuckqueen. There seems to be some confusion as to what these related words really mean and whether or not they are spelling variations, cuckold slang or have meanings unto themselves.
Cuckhold is a spelling variation of cuckold, although in some cases it is an actual variation used when a Femdom or Hot Wife wants to assert that she has a cuckhold, as in a possession. She owns the cuckold and can do whatever she wants with him including cuckolding. A Cuckholdress would be the Cuckoldress in this situation, i.e., the Femdom or Hotwife who asserts control and possession over the cuckhold.
Cockhold began as a spelling variation on cuckold, but being a cockhold usually means there is an element of Hot Wife imposed chastity (keyholding) or Femdom cock control in the relationship. A cockhold has surrendered control over his cock to the Cockholder or Cockholdress and may be chastized, teased, denied and have his orgasms ruined. The cock control may also be enforced by the Femdom Hot Wife Cockholder / Cockholdress cuckolding the cockhold, but not in all cases.
Cockold is a spelling variation of cuckold and to my knowledge and research has not yielded any variations on the traditional definition.
Cuckolderess is a spelling variation of Cuckoldress and again hasn’t yielded any variations re: the Cuckoldress definition. It is a common misspelling of Cuckoldress.
Cuckqueen is a spelling variation of Cuckquean in some cases and in other cases, it is used as an abbreviation of Cuckold Queen or Cuckold Size Queen, meaning a Cuckoldress who is very dominant, presiding over her cuck and who prefers to have sex with only well hung men. A Cuckqueen can also be a Femdom who rules over her cuckie slaves.
In the blog post Cuckold Cuckoldress Cuckquean, a cuckold wrote in about his cuckold predicament and sought advice as to whether he should stay in his cuckold marriage or get divorced from his Cuckoldress wife. One commenter advised him to stay since he was inadequate in bed, meaning what real choice did he have but to accept being a cuckold? My advice in Dear Cuckoldress in response to his query was virtually the same. I received another email from this cuckold with a short update:
Dear Cuckoldress Sara,
I realized after seeing my email on your blog, your Dear Cuckoldress response and what your commenter wrote, that I am in a helpless cuckold position. I kind of look at it like in a chess game, it’s checkmate, the Size Queen has me cornered. My Cuckoldress Size Queen wife would not be pursuing sex with other men if I was capable of keeping her sexually satisfied. But I must be doing something for my Cuckoldress. Yes, providing for her. I give her the ability to have a very nice lifestyle which she wouldn’t be able to enjoy without my money. I think she also secretly enjoys cuckolding me, and perhaps this gives her a sexual thrill? I know it makes me feel humiliated, but that seems to be the fate of the cuckold to feel humiliation, to become sexually excited by this humiliation. Not just the cuckold humiliation, but the small penis humiliation and last but not least, the humiliation of sexual rejection. So I’ve come to realize that I’m better off being a cuckold than being divorced and lonely.
Response from the Cuckoldress:
In Evolutionary Biology, there are biological theories of different types of males and how they function to perpetuate a species. The S or R male is the Sexual or Reproductive Male, who the females mate with and is generally perceived to be a stronger, larger male and sometimes to have a larger penis. This is not necessarily the male the female may reside with while they raise their offspring. The S or R male is the Alpha male. The Alpha male is free to roam to sexually engage with females. Then there is the Q male. The Q male is the Quality of life male, the provider, the beta male. The beta male may not be as large or strong as the S or R male and may also have a small penis. This male will remain with the female and watch over her, improve the quality of her life and participate in raising her offspring, even if they are not his. This aspect of Evolutionary Biology occurs in many species.
Therefore, cuckolding is a natural biological occurrence. But because as human beings we are more evolved creatures, we also experience all of the emotions involved with the dynamics of a cuckold relationship. For a Cuckoldress, she is experiencing the power and thrill of cuckolding her Q male. Without that dynamic in place, the thrill of having sex with S or R males isn’t as powerful. The sex becomes more powerful for a Cuckoldress Size Queen when she has sex with Alpha males while cuckolding her beta male. The beta male in turn is more highly sexualized because he is in competition with the S or R males, and produces more sperm, the latter has been proven in studies and is discussed in the book, Sperm Wars. More sperm production means stronger orgasms, even though the Q male knows that he is not the sexual choice of the Cuckoldress. The biological imperative of the Q male is to compete regardless of his poor chances of mating with the Cuckoldress. So, the sex for all participants in the cuckold relationship is heightened. Even the Alpha male is more excited by fucking someone else’s wife or girlfriend, by the conquest, by the act of cuckolding a lesser beta male.
Miss Ireland Draws Ire in Eire
Is Ireland next? Will Miss Ireland set a well-publicized precedent for preference for BBC as in Big Black Cock? Throughout history, some of the North Sea island nations have been the most fierce about racial purity. Ireland, Iceland and Greenland have been known for defending the Moors and Blacks and keeping them from mixing with the women in their population. There has even been some discrimination against the Black Irish, those who descended from Moorish genetics from conquerors of centuries ago.
Miss Ireland has been getting harassed on the internet for pursuing her relationship with her African boyfriend, but she won’t back down, nor should she. She is also clearly drawing ire because of her fierce interracial cuckoldress stance. A cuckoldress can cuckold an individual, but as illustrated, a cuckoldress can cuckold an entire nation of whitebois by choosing superior black cock over inferior white willie. So while Irish men may be trying to resist submitting to this interracial cuckold / cuckoldress relationship dynamic, it’s only a matter of time before more high profile interracial relationships prevail. And only a matter of time before interracial lust sets in and cuckold sexual excitement prevails.
