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One important point about swinging is that this kink is not for singles looking for other singles. Couples exclusively engage in swinging to provide variety and spice to their relationship. In a lot of cases, the woman drives the swinging pursuits. This is verified on Mel’s site where there is an abundance of swinging profiles featuring wives looking for husband swaps or swinging. And hubbies either like to watch their shared wife as voyeurs or hubbies are having sex with someone else’s wife in a wife swap.
Several important criteria separate swinging from cuckolding. First, a cuckold is humiliated and aroused when his wife is being sexually ravished by a superior well-hung male. Second, a cuckold feels submissive and inferior to the male swinger sexing up his spouse. Third, a Cuckoldress will forbid her cuckold from participating in any swinging sex, unless you consider cleaning out creampie to be a form of sex. And the final criterion, all swingers who are cuckolds enjoy voyeurism.